Finding someone you want to marry is hard.
Maybe you're not meeting anyone at all.
Or you are, but nothing seems to go anywhere.
And then, just when you finally meet someone you actually like, a whole new set of questions begins.
Is this going somewhere?
Am I overthinking it?
What am I missing?How do I know whether to keep exploring...or walk away?
Let's get to the part nobody really taught us.
You've done the inner work.
You've reflected. Learnt about yourself.
Maybe you've done the therapy, read the books, worked on your patterns and become clearer about your boundaries.
And still, when another person enters the picture, things can get complicated.
Because there's a difference between understanding yourself and knowing how to relate to someone else.
Personal development helps you understand yourself.
Relational development helps you discover what happens when another person enters the picture.
And that's the work we do inside Single to Married.
Because you need opportunities to meet, and the relational skills to know what to do when you do.
The final Single to Married of 2026
Saturday 28 November 2026 10am–5pm
Private location, London UK
30 minutes by train from Liverpool Street
Street parking available
Women only
Moving from
Single to Married
You've Googled. Read the books. Listened to the podcasts.
You've even asked your married friends what they did.
And sometimes the answer is:
“When I met him, I just knew.”
But what if you don't?
What if it's simply two people trying to work out whether this could become something?
That's where Single to Married comes in.
Because your time and your heart matter.
We'll take the journey together, from single to married.
01 — Before you meet him
Where do I find him? matters.
But so does:
Who am I actually looking for, and how will I know?
Because long before you started searching, family, culture and experience may have already shaped an idea of who you should be looking for.
We'll get clearer about the difference between what you want and what you genuinely need in the person you're hoping to build a life with.
Wants can be negotiable.
Needs are fundamental to whether a relationship can flourish.
Because sometimes it's not about looking harder.
It's about knowing what you're looking for.
02 — While you're getting to know him
And then you meet someone you actually like.
Suddenly, it's very easy to get stuck in your own head.
Does he like me?
Am I saying the right thing?
Is this going anywhere?
But while you're wondering whether he's choosing you, there's another question waiting:
Who is he, and am I choosing him?
Because knowing the right questions isn't the same as knowing someone.
We'll practise moving beyond facts and “right answers” into conversations that help you discover who he is, allow him to discover who you are, and notice what happens between you.
Not simply:
Do we tick each other's boxes?
But:
Could we expand each other's lives?
03 — How you decide
And then your heart gets involved.
Which is precisely when everything you've learnt can become harder to see clearly.
What happens to your judgement when you really want it to work?
We'll explore how chemistry, hope, family expectations, the passing of time and the fear of getting it wrong can influence what you notice, and what you explain away.
You'll learn to pay attention to whether his words, values and actions tell the same story, while staying curious about what's happening inside you too.
The goal isn't absolute certainty.
It's being able to make a decision you trust yourself to stand behind.
04 — What happens after you choose
Because choosing each other isn't the finish line.
Now you have to build something together.
We'll explore how two independent lives begin making room for an us, and the communication, trust and relational habits that help you and me become we.
Because a healthy relationship isn't built by one person working hard enough to keep the other.
It's built in what two people learn to create between them.
Not:
How do I make sure he stays?
But:
How do we build something worth staying for.
Why I created Single to Married
I'm Wajeeha Amin, an accredited psychotherapist (MBACP, MCPS), relationship coach and relationship educator.
Over the years, I've met so many women who deeply wanted marriage, and were trying so hard to get it right.
Underneath all the searching, questions and advice was often a quiet feeling:
I should somehow already know how to do this.
As though finding someone, getting to know him and deciding whether to build a life together were things we were simply supposed to know.
But where do we learn any of this?
Where do you get to practise before the conversations really matter, with someone experienced beside you, helping you make sense of what you're discovering?
That's why I created Single to Married.
You want marriage.
I'm not going to tell you to stop wanting it.
I'm going to sit beside you and help you become more skilled at navigating the journey from single to married.
Because something this important deserves more than trial and error and hoping somehow it all works out.
I want to help you marry — and marry well.
Some things are too important to learn by trial and error.
You'll talk. You'll practise. You'll work with other women in the room, noticing what happens within you, in the person in front of you, and between you.
I'll be there to help you make sense of what you notice, and explore what you might do differently.
And we'll make room for the things that don't fit neatly into a textbook,family, faith, culture, expectations and the very real pressures that can come with trying to marry well.
You don't need to be talking to someone. You don't need to have all the answers. And you don't need to arrive with any of this figured out.
Come as you are.
Ready to be curious, have some really good conversations and try things out, so you're better equipped when it matters for real.
And then you take it into real life.
Because relationships don't happen in a workshop.
And what you practise here isn't only for finding someone.
These are relational skills you'll take with you, into getting to know someone, into marriage, and into the other relationships that make up your life.
An introduction comes along. You start talking to someone. And suddenly, something we explored in the room isn't theoretical anymore.
That's why your place also includes an online Integration Conversation with me after the event.
Because I don't want this to be a day you enjoyed.
I want it to be a day you use, on purpose, in real life.
And who knows where the next introduction, conversation or decision might lead.
Real women. Real journeys.
There isn't one route from single to married.
But there is something that has happened after every Single to Married I've held.
At some point, a message arrives: “Wajeeha, I'm getting married.”
Sometimes it's months later. Sometimes longer. And every time, I smile.
Not because Single to Married made it happen — I would never promise you that.
But because the woman sending that message was once sitting where you are now.
Wondering. Searching. Trying to work out what she might be missing.
So I'll let some of the women who've had a seat at the table tell you what happened next.
“I have never been so happy on a Monday morning in all my life… There wasn't just one light-bulb moment, there were so many. In one sentence — I am good enough and I will get married Inshallah!”
“I attended Single to Married twice. The first time, I was in shock, why had no one taught me this before? I was overwhelmed by how much I had to unlearn and learn. The second time, everything clicked. I applied what I learned with intention and clarity. Alhamdulillāh, I got married.”
“At 40, I thought it would never happen for me. After all the failed attempts at searching for a marriage partner and taking endless breaks, Wajeeha gave me so much hope to continue and push through. Finally, at 43, I got married.”
“Everyone had moved on, and I felt like I'd been left behind. I was the eldest in my family. All my siblings had got married and started their families, and I really struggled with the loneliness of feeling left behind. I met Wajeeha at an event where she was speaking and every word felt like she was speaking directly to me. I attended Single to Married and then joined Flourish and stayed until I got married. It's such a supportive group of women, but I got the most out of my 1-to-1s with Wajeeha. Having that space and support made such a difference.”
And then there are the messages that arrive later.
One woman thought about booking, and thought about it for a little too long.
By the time she decided, the room was full.
So when I opened the next Single to Married, she booked her place. Afterwards, she went on to work with me privately. One year later, she was engaged
Another came feeling as though she'd reached the end of the road. Looking back, she told me that had she married before doing this work, she believed she might have ended up divorced. Exactly one year later, she was married.
Different women. Different journeys.
Their stories aren't a promise of what will happen for you. They can't be.
But they do remind me why I keep opening this room.
Women arrive wondering what they're missing.
And sometimes, months later, my phone lights up:
“Wajeeha, I'm getting married.”
Maybe one day I'll receive that message from you too.
For now, perhaps it starts with being in the room.
This is the final Single to Married I'll be holding this year.
One last room for 2026.
Saturday 28 November 2026
10am–5pm
Private location, London
Around 30 minutes by train from Liverpool Street.Street parking available.
Women only.A full day with me, in a small room of women, learning and practising the relational skills that can help you navigate the journey from finding someone to building a marriage with them.
Your place includes:
A full day together — 10am–5pm
A small, participatory room where we'll talk, explore and practise together.Real-time relational practice.
Because knowing what healthy relating looks like is one thing.Being able to do it when you really like the person sitting opposite you is another.
Your Single to Married materials:
Your own materials to work with during the day and return to afterwards.
Breakfast, lunch and everything in between:
A light breakfast, lunch, hot and cold drinks and snacks throughout the day.Come in. Settle down. I'll take care of the rest.
An online Integration Conversation with me afterwards:
A chance to come back once real life has happened, to talk through what you've noticed, what you're using and the questions that have emerged.Because I don't want this to be a day you enjoyed.
I want it to be a day you use.
Early Bird — £199
Book by 1 November 2026
Full Fee — £269
From 2 November 2026
Prefer to spread the cost? Two instalments are available, message me.
Places are intentionally limited because Single to Married is something you participate in, not something you sit and watch.
If you've been reading this thinking maybe next time...
This is the last room I'll be opening in 2026.
Take my hand. Let's begin.
SINGLE TO MARRIED
Relationship skills for finding someone you can build a marriage with.
Curated By Wajeeha Amin